ggggggggggrrrrrr

i hate it,
i hate talking to my mom about money.
i closed my account and gave her my balance.
and she wants me to send her money monthly?!
say what?!
why?!
i told her if she is in need, yes i will give her money, but no, she doesn't get to tell me what to spend on and when to send her money. no, i'm not living there anymore! its not like i'm shared costs on her. when she was here, she did get money from me. seriously, she did. if she didn't feel like paying the phone bill, i paid for it. i never asked her for money for the insurance of the car, or gas. never. i paid for my own. if she needed money for whatever reason, i gave.
now i can't. i've got too much to spend on, unless i start getting a second job, there's no way i can send her money. argh!
and i told her that i'm saving up for my wedding, she said, leo should spend for it. why? i mean, really, its not like he was saving up his entire life just to get married. why, why, why do i have a financial freak of a mother?!
why?!